Hardship & Vulnerability

Knowing when to pause collection altogether

Sometimes the right and most effective move is to stop chasing entirely for a while — knowing when is a core hardship skill.

What this scenario teaches

  • Recognise circumstances that warrant a full pause
  • Distinguish a pause from writing the debt off
  • Make sure the pause actually stops all activity
  • Set a review and a clear path back
  • Document the decision and its reason

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The scenario

A customer's circumstances are so acute — serious illness, a recent bereavement, a natural disaster, an episode of family violence, or a complete loss of income — that asking for any payment, however small, would be unreasonable. Pressing on would be both unkind and futile.

This is when a full pause is the right tool. Not forever, and not a write-off, but a deliberate, documented halt while the person deals with something far bigger than your account.

What's really going on

A pause is a recognised hardship response: collection activity stops for a defined period, interest and fees may be held depending on the arrangement, and the customer gets genuine breathing space. It differs from a write-off, where the debt is forgiven, and from simple inaction, which leaves the account drifting without anyone deciding anything.

The triggers tend to be obvious in hindsight — severe medical crisis, disaster, safety risk, total income loss. The skill is recognising them in the moment and acting before an automated process does something tone-deaf. A pause is a positive decision, made and recorded, not just a gap where follow-up stopped happening.

Your options

  • Apply a defined pause. Stop activity for a set period rather than indefinitely.
  • Hold charges where appropriate. Consider freezing interest and fees during the pause.
  • Disable automation. Make sure no reminder, letter, or escalation fires during the hold.
  • Set the path back. Agree a review point and how the customer re-engages when ready.

Recommended approach

Make the decision explicit and reassuring: "Given everything you're dealing with, we'll pause this completely and check back in a couple of months." Confirm the length, what happens to any charges, and that nothing will chase them in the meantime. Critically, verify that automated reminders are genuinely switched off — a pause undone by a stray system message is worse than no pause at all.

Record the reason and the review date clearly. The wider judgement of when to ease versus escalate is covered in the Academy library.

What to avoid

Do not confuse a pause with a write-off, or let the customer assume the debt has vanished — be clear it is a hold, not a cancellation. Do not leave a pause open-ended with no review, and above all do not let automated dunning keep running underneath it. A documented decision with the systems actually stopped is the whole point.

The lesson

  • A full pause suits acute crises — illness, disaster, safety risk, total income loss.
  • A pause is a documented decision, not a write-off and not mere drift.
  • Verify automated reminders are genuinely switched off during the hold.
  • Set a review date and a clear path back to payments.

Frequently asked questions

Is a pause the same as forgiving the debt?

No. A pause is a temporary, defined hold on activity; the debt remains. A write-off forgives it. Be clear with the customer which one you are offering.

How do I make sure nothing chases the customer?

Disable the automated reminders, letters, and escalations on the account explicitly. A pause undermined by a stray system message defeats the entire purpose.

How long should a pause run?

Long enough for the crisis to ease, with a defined review point. Acute situations like disaster or serious illness may need months, and the pause can be extended.

Put it into practice

Real situations, the right call

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